Are Shawn Finch & Alliya de Batista Still Together?

Shawn Finch and Alliya de Batista’s relationship issues on 90 Day Fiancé season 11 have made viewers curious about whether they are still together. Alliya first met Shawn on a dating app in 2020 when she was living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil. Love In Paradise documented Shawn coming to terms with Alliya’s new life and personality after having been together with Alliya for three years the point. Shawn’s struggles to commit to monogamy also resulted in relationship trouble. However, Shawn and Alliya took their long-distance relationship to the next step by applying for her K-1 visa.

Alliya moved to California in 90 Day Fiancé season 11. Alliya began living with Shawn in his Spanish-style West Hollywood home. The situation was tense with Shawn having kept his plan to marry her a secret from most people in his life, including his kids from his first marriage. It appears Shawn’s ex-wife didn’t know he was gay for 14 years. The LA-based hairstylist seems to be good at keeping secrets, but with his life being filmed for the world to see on TV, 90 Day Fiancé fans wish to know if things worked out between him and Alliya.

Shawn Met Alliya Before She Transitioned

Shawn Is Still In Love With Douglas

Alliya used to be a young man named Douglas when Shawn met her. Their relationship was complicated in Love In Paradise because Alliya was assigned male at birth. Alliya used to wear makeup, but she wore men’s clothing and hairstyles. They were together for a year and a half until they went to a pride event in Spain, and Douglas wanted to try drag. Once they went shopping, and Douglas put on a wig, Douglas became a new person. Three years into their relationship, Shawn seemed to regret that he had helped in the birth of Alliya.

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Instead of ending the relationship, Shawn made comments such as that he never wanted to be with a woman. Shawn had fallen for Douglas and Alliya’s queen bee personality was not for him. Meanwhile, Alliya wished for Shawn to forget her past and accept the new her. Shawn was and is in love with Douglas and mourns the relationship they had. Alliya needed to be with someone who was not in love with someone she used to be in the past.

Shawn & Alliya Were In An Open Relationship

Shawn Kept Alliya A Secret From His Family & Friends

image of 90 Day Fiancé's Shawn Finch & Alliya de Batista — Custom image by Cesar García

Another major challenge in the relationship is their age gap. Shawn is 36 years older than Alliya, suggesting they were doomed from the start. Shawn kept deadnaming Alliya to the point that she had to ask him to stop. Shawn needed to accept that this situation wasn’t what he signed up for and move on. Instead, Shawn was having casual sex with other men behind Alliya’s back without caring about her needs or discussing monogamy with her. When Alliya openly asked Shawn if his friends and family were aware of their relationship, he said that only a few were.

Shawn & Alliya Are Still Together In April 2025

Shawn & Alliya Spotted Together In West Hollywood

In April 2025, Reddit user No_Afternoon5665 confirmed Alliya and Shawn’s current relationship status with proof in pictures. The 90 Day Fiancé season 11 couple are still together after the show ended. Alliya moved to America in April 2024 on a K-1 visa, so that means they got married and Alliya has completed a year of being Shawn’s wife, and there seem to have been no complications since. Shawn and Alliya were grocery shopping in West Hollywood and looked happy while doing it behind the cameras.

90 Day Fiancé airs Sundays at 8 p.m. EDT on TLC.

Source: u/No_Afternoon5665/Reddit